This is one of the most critical lessons in teaching your baby to sign. Repetition is a big piece of learning for anyone, but I think we might think of the phrase "practice makes perfect." Well, with a baby, we know they pay attention when we repeat words and use a high pitched sing-song voice, otherwise known as parentese (that's the PC term so Dad's are included too!) and it used to be referred to as motherese.
That repetition comes naturally when talking to babies, nobody has to tell a mother to do this as she nurtures and bonds with her baby in arms. Just as we use repetition in speaking to our babies, it makes sense we would repeat the signs for those key words we are repeating. Afterall those are the words your baby is focusing on with all that repetition - so go ahead and sign those exact words you would repeat in motherese or parentese.
What we tend to do as parents is get bored quickly of the very games we start with our babies and toddlers. Go ahead and think back to the last time you played peek-a-boo with your babe and consider if your baby turned to another activity or if it was YOU that got bored and switched gears.
After class today I demonstrated how exactly to use the idea of repetition with Isaac and signing MILK. He had to have heard me say and seen me sign MILK 100+ times in various sing-song questiong games. Not only was he growing further and further engaged in watching me and responding with the movement of his eyes and tracking from my eyse to my hand and back again, but his expression showed he enjoyed the game immensely. In discussion with his mom she said she had been making the context of signing MILK fun and repeating it, but after observing me her understanding of what I REALLY mean by repeat, repeat, repeat was more clear. I can't wait to hear what transpires with her this week!
Joann Woolley is owner and instructor of Sign4Baby in San Diego teaching parents how to communicate with their pre-verbal baby using American Sign Language. With her in depth knowledge of ASL as her first language she takes you beyond just the basics in signing, also filling your parenting tool belt with parenting tips and tricks coupled with signing as a great boundary teaching tool for toddlers. Want to know which signs most parents start with but gets them stuck in the mud? I'll send you that hundred dollar tip for FREE.
Tuesday, July 10, 2012
Monday, July 9, 2012
Baby Sign Language 101 - Let your baby's interests lead the way
More often than not parents are motivated to learn baby sign language and teach it to their little one because it will make their job easier in knowing what their baby wants or needs. This is helpful, yes. Who wouldn't prefer a baby signing MORE or ALL DONE while in the high chair or DIAPER when they need a new one? But, for most babies this is not the best way to begin signing.
I learned this with Amberly by chance. When she was 6 months old we were hanging out on the stairs where a pile of rubber ducks and other bathroom decor waited to be taken to her bathroom to embelish it. As she picked up the little ducks I would playfully "quack" and use the ducks to kiss her and make it a fun interaction. We did this for maybe 10 minutes, I am not sure because I wasn't watching the clock... we were just having fun. As I watched Amberly play with the ducks she held one up and signed and said DUCK clear as day. Now, she didn't again say DUCK for a couple months, but this scenario showed me how closely they pay attention to what we are doing and saying when it is all based on play.
If you have read one of those baby sign language books that advises starting with MORE, ALL DONE, EAT, DIAPER, NIGHT-NIGHT, I have my 3 guinea pigs that clearly showed more interest in using these signs only after learning the signs for things that most interested them.
Leave me a comment: I'd love to know what your baby's first few signs were and what you think about starting with some fun intriguing signs before jumping into the abstract or complex ideas of MORE, ALL DONE, etc...
Joann Woolley is owner and instructor of Sign4Baby in San Diego teaching parents how to communicate with their pre-verbal baby using American Sign Language. With her in depth knowledge of ASL as her first language she takes you beyond just the basics in signing, also filling your parenting tool belt with parenting tips and tricks coupled with signing as a great boundary teaching tool for toddlers. Want to know which signs most parents start with but gets them stuck in the mud? I'll send you that hundred dollar tip for FREE.
I learned this with Amberly by chance. When she was 6 months old we were hanging out on the stairs where a pile of rubber ducks and other bathroom decor waited to be taken to her bathroom to embelish it. As she picked up the little ducks I would playfully "quack" and use the ducks to kiss her and make it a fun interaction. We did this for maybe 10 minutes, I am not sure because I wasn't watching the clock... we were just having fun. As I watched Amberly play with the ducks she held one up and signed and said DUCK clear as day. Now, she didn't again say DUCK for a couple months, but this scenario showed me how closely they pay attention to what we are doing and saying when it is all based on play.
If you have read one of those baby sign language books that advises starting with MORE, ALL DONE, EAT, DIAPER, NIGHT-NIGHT, I have my 3 guinea pigs that clearly showed more interest in using these signs only after learning the signs for things that most interested them.
Leave me a comment: I'd love to know what your baby's first few signs were and what you think about starting with some fun intriguing signs before jumping into the abstract or complex ideas of MORE, ALL DONE, etc...
Joann Woolley is owner and instructor of Sign4Baby in San Diego teaching parents how to communicate with their pre-verbal baby using American Sign Language. With her in depth knowledge of ASL as her first language she takes you beyond just the basics in signing, also filling your parenting tool belt with parenting tips and tricks coupled with signing as a great boundary teaching tool for toddlers. Want to know which signs most parents start with but gets them stuck in the mud? I'll send you that hundred dollar tip for FREE.
Tuesday, July 3, 2012
Why sign FIREWORKS to your baby or toddler?
Why would I bother signing FIREWORKS to my baby or toddler if they'll be in bed before it begins? Well, fireworks are LOUD and if you live in close proximity to where they'll be going off your little one may wake up and wonder what all that noise is.
Tip: Look up some videos of FIREWORKS displays on YouTube and show your baby the sign. Talk about how they are loud, colorful, and you might hear them in the middle of the night. Here is a Disney World display to use as an example:
Here's the video for all those fun 4th of July signs, including FIREWORKS!
And just in case you thought your kids are too old to sign, I'll let you in on a little secret.... American Sign Language is FUN for kids! They love being theatrical and expressing themselves... if you look carefully at the signs for PINWHEEL, FLAG, and FIREWORKS you can see how iconic the signs are. See my kids signing these:
Happy 4th of July!
Joann Woolley is owner and instructor of Sign4Baby in San Diego teaching parents how to communicate with their pre-verbal baby using American Sign Language. With her in depth knowledge of ASL as her first language she takes you beyond just the basics in signing, also filling your parenting tool belt with parenting tips and tricks coupled with signing as a great boundary teaching tool for toddlers. Want to know which signs most parents start with but gets them stuck in the mud? I'll send you that hundred dollar tip for FREE.
Tip: Look up some videos of FIREWORKS displays on YouTube and show your baby the sign. Talk about how they are loud, colorful, and you might hear them in the middle of the night. Here is a Disney World display to use as an example:
Here's the video for all those fun 4th of July signs, including FIREWORKS!
And just in case you thought your kids are too old to sign, I'll let you in on a little secret.... American Sign Language is FUN for kids! They love being theatrical and expressing themselves... if you look carefully at the signs for PINWHEEL, FLAG, and FIREWORKS you can see how iconic the signs are. See my kids signing these:
Happy 4th of July!
Joann Woolley is owner and instructor of Sign4Baby in San Diego teaching parents how to communicate with their pre-verbal baby using American Sign Language. With her in depth knowledge of ASL as her first language she takes you beyond just the basics in signing, also filling your parenting tool belt with parenting tips and tricks coupled with signing as a great boundary teaching tool for toddlers. Want to know which signs most parents start with but gets them stuck in the mud? I'll send you that hundred dollar tip for FREE.
Monday, June 11, 2012
Baby Sign Language 101 - Start with 3 to 5 signs
Have you ever bitten off more than you could chew? Consider this tidbit when starting to sign with your baby.
My mom is deaf and she signed in abundance with me as a baby. I began signing back at 9 months old. My children signed at 4 months, 7 months and just shy of 2 months, respectively. I credit this in part to the fact that we signed a specific number of signs to them in the beginning, as not to overwhelm them.
The analogy is this - if you dump out a box of puzzle pieces that has 24 pieces on the floor for your 2 or 3 year old, it is going to take a LONG time for them to put that together to get the big picture. If instead you start with a simple 4 piece puzzle set it is easier to see how the pieces fit. It will also make it easier on you, the parent or caregiver in remembering to sign these specific signs. As long as you pick the right signs to start with, you will have great success in signing just these specific 3 to 5 signs in the beginning and build gradually from there.
Take away:
Start with 3-5 signs, this way you are not overwhelmed with the idea of "teaching" your baby to sign.
Joann Woolley is owner and instructor of Sign4Baby in San Diego teaching parents how to communicate with their pre-verbal baby using American Sign Language. With her in depth knowledge of ASL as her first language she takes you beyond just the basics in signing, also filling your parenting tool belt with parenting tips and tricks coupled with signing as a great boundary teaching tool for toddlers. Want to know which signs most parents start with but gets them stuck in the mud? I'll send you that hundred dollar tip for FREE.
My mom is deaf and she signed in abundance with me as a baby. I began signing back at 9 months old. My children signed at 4 months, 7 months and just shy of 2 months, respectively. I credit this in part to the fact that we signed a specific number of signs to them in the beginning, as not to overwhelm them.
The analogy is this - if you dump out a box of puzzle pieces that has 24 pieces on the floor for your 2 or 3 year old, it is going to take a LONG time for them to put that together to get the big picture. If instead you start with a simple 4 piece puzzle set it is easier to see how the pieces fit. It will also make it easier on you, the parent or caregiver in remembering to sign these specific signs. As long as you pick the right signs to start with, you will have great success in signing just these specific 3 to 5 signs in the beginning and build gradually from there.
Take away:
Start with 3-5 signs, this way you are not overwhelmed with the idea of "teaching" your baby to sign.
Joann Woolley is owner and instructor of Sign4Baby in San Diego teaching parents how to communicate with their pre-verbal baby using American Sign Language. With her in depth knowledge of ASL as her first language she takes you beyond just the basics in signing, also filling your parenting tool belt with parenting tips and tricks coupled with signing as a great boundary teaching tool for toddlers. Want to know which signs most parents start with but gets them stuck in the mud? I'll send you that hundred dollar tip for FREE.
Baby Sign Language 101 - Wait to introduce new signs
Ever have a teething, sick or otherwise cranky baby? Does your baby appear to have their "learning hat" on at that time? Probably not. I encourage parents to continue using the signs they already have in their toolbelt, but to hold off on introducing new signs when their baby is in the midst of one of these common upsets. Instead of adding to the frustration of what is ailing them by showing a new sign, wait until they feel better to add new signs where you both will gain.
There may be an exception to this. For instance when my daughter was sick and I needed to give her medicine, I never thought to sign it to her. She didn't do well taking medicine... I also didn't know that much about homeopathy at the time either and am convinced that her unwilliingness to take the medicine was a sign from her that her body didn't need these chemicals.... anyway that is another post altogether. It wasn't until my 3rd baby that all OTC cold medicines were deemed unsafe for children under 2yo.
With my boys, I found that by signing medicine a few times before giving them something that indeed was a helpful remedy, one they could feel in just minutes, seemed to make them more receptive to taking the medicine, as in they had made the correlation that the teething tablets by Hylands were a good thing, and I would also then sign medicine for the other types of cold medicine I gave them and they took it with greater ease than Amberly had.
Take away:
If your baby is teething, overtired, ill, or otherwise cranky, wait until he or she is happy and feels better to introduce new signs.
Joann Woolley is owner and instructor of Sign4Baby in San Diego teaching parents how to communicate with their pre-verbal baby using American Sign Language. With her in depth knowledge of ASL as her first language she takes you beyond just the basics in signing, also filling your parenting tool belt with parenting tips and tricks coupled with signing as a great boundary teaching tool for toddlers. Want to know which signs most parents start with but gets them stuck in the mud? I'll send you that hundred dollar tip for FREE.
There may be an exception to this. For instance when my daughter was sick and I needed to give her medicine, I never thought to sign it to her. She didn't do well taking medicine... I also didn't know that much about homeopathy at the time either and am convinced that her unwilliingness to take the medicine was a sign from her that her body didn't need these chemicals.... anyway that is another post altogether. It wasn't until my 3rd baby that all OTC cold medicines were deemed unsafe for children under 2yo.
With my boys, I found that by signing medicine a few times before giving them something that indeed was a helpful remedy, one they could feel in just minutes, seemed to make them more receptive to taking the medicine, as in they had made the correlation that the teething tablets by Hylands were a good thing, and I would also then sign medicine for the other types of cold medicine I gave them and they took it with greater ease than Amberly had.
Take away:
If your baby is teething, overtired, ill, or otherwise cranky, wait until he or she is happy and feels better to introduce new signs.
Joann Woolley is owner and instructor of Sign4Baby in San Diego teaching parents how to communicate with their pre-verbal baby using American Sign Language. With her in depth knowledge of ASL as her first language she takes you beyond just the basics in signing, also filling your parenting tool belt with parenting tips and tricks coupled with signing as a great boundary teaching tool for toddlers. Want to know which signs most parents start with but gets them stuck in the mud? I'll send you that hundred dollar tip for FREE.
Baby Sign Language 101 - Sing and Sign the ABCs
Do you love singing to your baby? Babies love the sound of their mothers voice, and dad's too for that matter! Don't be shy, sing and sing often. This can be anything from your favorite songs on the radio to nursery rhymes or even the ABCs if you don't recall any nursery rhymes ; )
I used to sing and sign the ABCs to Amberly while she was in her carseat (obviously while my husband was driving) and she would usually stop fussing because she had something else to focus on other than the fact that she was stuck in her carseat. Incorporating more than one of your child's senses helps them with learning! I'm convinced that because Amberly learned to sign the alphabet very early on, she was able to learn to write with ease with no real guidance from me. Many of the hand shapes for the letters resemble the written letter.
Here is a video where I am singing and signing the ABCs SLOWLY so you can capture each letter.
Another reason signing the alphabet is helpful for preschoolers, they will notice that there are 5 distinct letters in that middle part and not lump them all together "L M N O P" as many toddlers and preschoolers do ; )
Take away:
Sing and sign the ABC's with your baby from when they are itty bitty, it helps them with language acquisition.
Joann Woolley is owner and instructor of Sign4Baby in San Diego teaching parents how to communicate with their pre-verbal baby using American Sign Language. With her in depth knowledge of ASL as her first language she takes you beyond just the basics in signing, also filling your parenting tool belt with parenting tips and tricks coupled with signing as a great boundary teaching tool for toddlers. Want to know which signs most parents start with but gets them stuck in the mud? I'll send you that hundred dollar tip for FREE.
I used to sing and sign the ABCs to Amberly while she was in her carseat (obviously while my husband was driving) and she would usually stop fussing because she had something else to focus on other than the fact that she was stuck in her carseat. Incorporating more than one of your child's senses helps them with learning! I'm convinced that because Amberly learned to sign the alphabet very early on, she was able to learn to write with ease with no real guidance from me. Many of the hand shapes for the letters resemble the written letter.
Here is a video where I am singing and signing the ABCs SLOWLY so you can capture each letter.
Another reason signing the alphabet is helpful for preschoolers, they will notice that there are 5 distinct letters in that middle part and not lump them all together "L M N O P" as many toddlers and preschoolers do ; )
Take away:
Sing and sign the ABC's with your baby from when they are itty bitty, it helps them with language acquisition.
Joann Woolley is owner and instructor of Sign4Baby in San Diego teaching parents how to communicate with their pre-verbal baby using American Sign Language. With her in depth knowledge of ASL as her first language she takes you beyond just the basics in signing, also filling your parenting tool belt with parenting tips and tricks coupled with signing as a great boundary teaching tool for toddlers. Want to know which signs most parents start with but gets them stuck in the mud? I'll send you that hundred dollar tip for FREE.
Baby Sign Language 101 - Facial Expression
Did you know that babies look at the human face for longer periods of time than any other object? The reason can be argued that it is because that is how they learn language. ASL may not be a verbal language, but looking at the human face is just as important as the hands to learn the language as the facial expression depicts the meaning of the word.
"Wake up" and "Surprised" are essecntially the same sign, but it is the facial expression that gives the other person the idea of which word is being expressed.
Take away -
Use maximum facial expression when demonstrating new signs to your baby, babies learn most by looking at our face!
Joann Woolley is owner and instructor of Sign4Baby in San Diego teaching parents how to communicate with their pre-verbal baby using American Sign Language. With her in depth knowledge of ASL as her first language she takes you beyond just the basics in signing, also filling your parenting tool belt with parenting tips and tricks coupled with signing as a great boundary teaching tool for toddlers. Want to know which signs most parents start with but gets them stuck in the mud? I'll send you that hundred dollar tip for FREE.
"Wake up" and "Surprised" are essecntially the same sign, but it is the facial expression that gives the other person the idea of which word is being expressed.
Take away -
Use maximum facial expression when demonstrating new signs to your baby, babies learn most by looking at our face!
Joann Woolley is owner and instructor of Sign4Baby in San Diego teaching parents how to communicate with their pre-verbal baby using American Sign Language. With her in depth knowledge of ASL as her first language she takes you beyond just the basics in signing, also filling your parenting tool belt with parenting tips and tricks coupled with signing as a great boundary teaching tool for toddlers. Want to know which signs most parents start with but gets them stuck in the mud? I'll send you that hundred dollar tip for FREE.
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